I need new ladies to kick it with...

So I was super excited to go to a relative's party tonight. It is going to be THE party of the month or season here in Chicago, and I setup VIP for myself and my gyrl. I gave her 2 wk notice about the party because she has kids. Why oh why did she wait until today to get a sitter? Why oh why did she not tell me until an hour before when I wanted to head out that she was tired and didn't feel like going anywhere anyway so she didn't try hard to find a sitter o_O Mind you this is a friend I go out often with when I don't feel like doing a darn thing. But I go because she wants to go and I'm being a friend. Nice to know that feeling isn't reciprocated....smdh