And just like that I'm over it

So after my gyrl did me how she did me last week, she called the next day to "make up for it". I really don't know how a person could make up for a once a yr event with a regular club night o_O. Since I declined that invite I haven't heard from her. It's been interesting and it's given me a chance to reflect...sometimes you just outgrow people in your life. For a few months I've been questioning our friendship. My eyes have been opened and a few sermons later, I'm okay with us just being not super close friends. I'm okay with my super small circle, even though they may not be in the same city as me. Yes, that may mean on missing out on an event like I did last week, but in the grand scheme of things that's not the end of the world. Keeping my circle tight keeps drama at a very low nonexistent level, and that's worth missing a special event =)